Rosie went on to state that “not one person” has noticed that she got a facelift. “Not a friend, not a stranger, not even people who owe me compliments. My teenager has not said a word. Nothing,” she wrote. “I went through a full existential feminist crisis, had my face and neck surgically altered, and the result is… zippo.”

“Which honestly is the best possible outcome,” she continued. “I didn’t disappear, I didn’t become someone else—I just stopped arguing with the mirror. And maybe that’s enough. Or at the very least…it’s what a lower deep plane face lift looks like when it minds its own business.”