An adorable three-year-old girl died inside her family’s squalid upstate New York home after her body became so infested with lice that she became anemic, a court was told. 

Joycelynn Dylewski was found struggling to breathe inside an apartment in Corinth, about an hour outside of Albany, on February 19, 2025.

The toddler was rushed to the hospital where she died. Her cause of death was ruled a homicide after a medical examiner found deeply disturbing evidence that she suffered from acute and chronic neglect.

Her parents, Matthew and Samantha Dylewski, pleaded guilty to criminally negligent homicide in connection with the death of their youngest child and were sentenced to the maximum of up to four years in prison this month.

Joycelynn was so ravaged by lice that she developed the blood condition anemia, which destroyed her heart and other organs, according to the Times Union. 

She also had clonidine, a blood pressure medication, in her system, the medical examiner found. 

At the time of Joycelynn’s death, Samantha, 33, suggested that it was Joycelynn and her siblings’ fault that she died. 

The mother told investigators that the little girl ‘fought her too much when she tried to apply treatment’ to her lice-infected scalp, seemingly placing blame on her dead daughter. 

She also told police that clonidine pills were left out by her son and that is how Joycelynn ingested them, per the report. 

Joycelynn Dylewski was found struggling to breathe inside an apartment in Corinth, about an hour outside of Albany, on February 19, 2025. Her body was severely infested with lice, which led her to be anemic 

Her parents, Matthew and Samantha Dylewski, pleaded guilty to criminally negligent homicide in connection with the death of their youngest child and were hit with the maximum sentence this month

But, text messages between Samantha and her husband showed that they had a conversation about the drug, Saratoga County First Assistant District Attorney Jennifer Buckley said in court. 

‘Her husband tells her she can give it to Joycelynn. Shortly after Joycelynn’s death, there’s an internet search on the cellphone to search for how long it would stay in the system,’ Buckley said, according to the outlet. 

Samantha also claimed that her daughter had a weak heart, but according to Buckley, Joycelynn’s heart was normal. 

The walls were also covered in grime, garbage was scattered all over the place and the carpets were stained and matted. 

Disturbing photos shared by Phoenix Property Maintenance, the cleaning company that was tasked with cleaning the place up after Joycelynn’s death, showed the full extent of the messy apartment. 

One image showed expired food items and wrappers strewn across a bedroom. 

Another showed garbage bags and crumbs surrounding a teal couch, along with what appeared to be children’s toys.

Other insects, including a dead cockroach, were found on the little girl’s body. Her teeth were also ‘rotten and black,’ an investigator said, Saratoga County Judge James R Davis said when he imposed Samantha’s sentence in early June. 

Disturbing photos shared by Phoenix Property Maintenance, the cleaning company that was tasked with cleaning the place up after Joycelynn’s death, showed the full extent of the messy apartment she died in 

Another showed garbage bags and crumbs surrounding a teal couch and what appeared to be children’s toys

Both she and her husband were sentenced to up to four years in state prison over the death of their daughter. They were also issued a full restraining from their four surviving children, whom they cannot talk to or see until 2038. 

Other than the severe lice infestation living inside the squalid home, there were also flies, rotting food, and a kitchen sink that was clogged with muck. 

During Samantha’s sentencing hearing, Davis said the couple’s presentence report was ‘the most horrific he has ever read,’ Times Union reported. 

Davis told Samantha as she sobbed: ‘Your daughter suffered over a long period of time. 

‘Even the other children could see that she suffered because of your neglect. It’s a gift to have a child.’ You had several children, and all of them suffered at your hands.’  

Her defense attorney, Matthew Maiello, did not speak during her sentencing, but Samantha did address the court. 

She told the court that she loved her children and she ‘doesn’t know how it got this far.’

‘As their mother, it’s my duty to protect them from harm, and I failed. I also failed my other children. Many things have happened things that I should have know to do and actions I should have taken. 

‘Since that day, I can’t find the words to express all my emotions I feel, but I don’t want sympathy. I do not want forgiveness. I don’t deserve any of that. The only thing I’ll ever want is my baby girl,’ Samantha said.

During his sentencing hearing on Monday, Matthew told the court that he wishes it was him that was dead, not Joycelynn. 

‘I totally wish that it didn’t happen. I wish it would be that I died instead of my daughter. I still think that to this day. … I constantly think about it. Nothing is ever going to change. I still want to die so I can be with her.”