Celeste Barber and Api Robin are parting ways.  

Indeed, the Australian comedian and her longtime partner—who she referred to as “hot husband” throughout her career—have separated after 20 years together, Api announced on social media.  

“The past few months have been incredibly challenging and deeply heartbreaking for us both. After much reflection, the decision has been made to separate,” the 52-year-old wrote in a statement titled “heavy hearts” on Instagram Feb. 13. “There is still love and respect between us, but sadly, we are at capacity and have come to recognise we may want different things.”

However, Api noted he and Celeste, 42, are prioritizing their connection with their sons Lou, 14, and Buddy, 11, throughout this process. (Api also has daughters Kyrah and Sahra from a previous relationship.)  

He ended the note, “We kindly ask for privacy and understanding as we navigate this.”